What
do quantum physics and love have in common? Fifteen years ago, preeminent
psychologist and philosopher Henry Grayson made a remarkable observation:
that in the wildly different realms of atoms and intimate relationships,
our thoughts alone can create undeniably real affects. “In quantum experiments,”
reveals Grayson, “when we change our minds, we literally change the
state of matter itself. Imagine, then, how deeply our thoughts can affect
our relationships.”
On
The New Physics of Love, you will put aside the traditional methods
of couples and family counseling – which focus on emotions, memories,
and personal biography – and begin to look at your relationships from
an entirely different perspective. It is what you are thinking that
silently guides all of your feelings and behaviors, he teaches – and
that by working intelligently with those thoughts, you can create
a deeper connection and intimacy with those you love.
At
the heart of all relationship issues lie two basic fears: the fear
of losing one’s self, and the fear of losing the other. Can you overcome
these fears simply by “sharing your feelings” or working on what you
say and do? Not in the long run, teaches Grayson, because if you want
real change to occur, you must learn to see beyond your ego or “small
self” – and open your awareness to the vast “field of intelligence”
that permeates everyone and everything around you.
Drawing
from the lucid observations of Hindu, Buddhist, and Christian philosophies
– and the newest currents in scientific thinking today – Henry Grayson
guides you personally through this thinking person’s course for creating
better, more loving relationships. With dozens of specific techniques
and exercises, you will learn how to break through the narrow perceptions
that can trap you in patterns of resentment and isolation – how to
heal the wounds that have already occurred – and how to cultivate
your natural capacity to love in a healthier and more satisfying way.
Includes a study guide.
LEARN
MORE ABOUT:
Your
thinking mind – why your ability to love depends on it
Relationship
insights from the world of quantum physics
Christian,
Buddhist, and Hindu perspectives on relationships and the self
Twelve
common barriers to true love, and how to overcome them
Beyond
psychology – relationship work seldom taught in therapy
Authentic
love vs. “counterfeit” love – a self-assessment checklist
Using
your mind to forgive and heal past wounds
On-the-spot
techniques to defuse conflicts as they arise
How
silent thoughts can transform your relationships
Imagination
training to rekindle intimacy with the one you love
Breathing
and body-oriented exercises to calm the emotions
More
than nine hours of meditations, exercises, and discussion to improve
your relationships right now – through the power of your mind.